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MAN CANDY: ANTM Finalist Mikey Heverly’s has Something Heavenly to Show you [NSFW]

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With Dustin McNeer struggling to keep his clothes on for longer than a day (AMEN), Keith Carlos’ saucy snaps (PREACH) and Bryant Wood’s porn past resurfacing, y’all might have thought there weren’t any of America’s Next Top Models left to expose themselves. Thankfully, you’re wrong. Mikey Heverly – 6’2″ has allegedly been caught modelling something other than his chiseled looks…

“You wanna be on top?”

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Now THAT’S Advertising! Bulges, Butts & Puppies are Everything Your Day Needs

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If you thought bulges alone were enough to sell undies, well – you’re right. But why have just bulges, when you can have butts and the most adorable puppies too? That seemed to be the creative mind behind Charlie by Matthew Zink’s Spring collection ‘Woof’. Look at that, they even threw in a gay cat call. Or should that be dog call? Whatever.

Actually, according to Attitude it was International Bitch Day, or something? One of those faux holidays that gives everyone a chance to dedicate a social media post to their puppies. You can stalk the model, Blake Bridges here.

Problemsolving Paper-Writing Actions

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Gays Overheard NYC: Piercings, Pizza & Poop

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We moved all the way overseas and thought that your one-liners couldn’t get any more ridiculous, but obviously we were wrong – y’all New Yorkers are ratchet, bitch. This week we overheard comparisons of the female and male anatomy, the benefits of being – and sleeping with – vers men (and it’s not what you think), and how being an introverted extrovert is scientifically proven.

VIRAL: This Compilation of Neil Patrick Harris & Husband David will Restore your Faith [Video]

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A video from ELLE Magazine has proved just how cute a couple Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka are! As if they’re family-synced Halloween outfits weren’t giving us family goals already, we’re even more sure that true love exists after watching this adorable video of the pair over the years. We’re totally shipping them! N’awww.

EXCLUSIVE: Colby Melvin “Gay Men Need to be less Apologetic about Sex”

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He’s amassed a social media following of over 2 million, has modelled for a number of underwear brands – despite the odds being against him (at 5’7″), and is now moving further into the world of activism, Colby Melvin sits down with C&C to chat unapologetic sexuality, shame within the gay community and his love life. 

C&C: So you’ve just been announced as the ambassador for Adam Male, tell us how that ties in with the other work you do…

Colby: So I was very lucky to come into the world of social media when I did, as it was all just blowing up. I’m 5’7” so there probably wouldn’t have been any other hope of getting modelling work, but so it was lucky it’s gone so well. I’ve done everything from Andrew Christian to representing the LGBT for Full Frontal Freedom at the Whitehouse. Now that I have a platform I’m looking to use that to move more into activism, and educate people. What’s great about AdamandMale.com is that 20% of proceeds go to HIV/AIDs charities (together with Adam & Eve that’s 40% of their total profits). They’re also a great company to work for, as they incorporate sex and education together and present it in a fun and unapologetic way.

You’ve previously stated that you encourage gay men to unapologetically explore their sexuality – do you think that’s something our community has a problem doing?

Well, I think that we have a lack of discussion, for instance, things like douching, having safe sex, grooming, and talking openly about all of these things isn’t really something that’s being done. We grew up not being taught about things like that, so when people want to explore their sexuality and experiment, they go to porn, or they look at models, when what they need is education and guidance.

How would our community benefit from changing that [being educated]?

There would be an decrease in STIs, but there would also build better and more open sexual relationships – whether that be with ourselves or with others. People would discover what is right for THEM instead of trying to fit into some heteronormative model. Different strokes for different folks! Being honest and open about our sex lives is how we can bridge the gap between sexual ignorance and sexual satisfaction. Having a fulfilling sex life isn’t dirty. If you’re having sex you should enjoy it! That also means being informed about the risks involved.

Do you think there’s an element of shame there?

I think the element of shame comes from the apprehension to speak openly and honestly about our sex lives. Talking about sex doesn’t have to be dirty or raunchy. Exploring your sexuality is incredibly important to helping establish a gay mans identity. After all, sex with other men is what makes us gay men. I feel that in the past talking about sex has been viewed as taboo or slutty, when in reality, we aren’t talking about it enough. Gay men are completely unaware of different things they can do to make their own sex lives better or even ways to protect themselves from contracting a multitude of STIs.

We’ve watched the promo video for your collaboration yesterday, where you play the referee… What was gym class like for you at school? Were you particularly sporty?

No, I was a total geek at school. I was pale, had thick glasses – I looked like Harry Potter! And, erm, gym class was…. there. I grew up in a traditional society, where we were taught that being gay is wrong, having sex is wrong, masturbation is wrong – so when I would see boys, even in the locker room, even in just admiration of their bodies, that’s not something that would be addressed.

Have your family been supportive of your lifestyle?

My mom is my best friend – and biggest fan – she’s very supportive, she’s been to underwear shows I’ve worked and she’s even on board with the Adam and Male work which is great. I mean, I’d have done it anyway, but it’s nice to have her support!

Obviously you filmed the promo with Willam and Jackie Beat, which queen are you shipping on this season of Ru Paul’s?

Well, when I moved to LA I had a suitcase of clothes and $100 and Willam really helped me starting out, so it was nice to be reunited. But this series, I like Nina Bonina Osama Bin Laded Brown.

So you previously dated a porn star, is that something you’d ever venture into?

I have no interest in doing porn, but I do have a lot of porn star friends and don’t judge them for their decision at all – if that’s what they choose to do, I respect that.

Would you date a porn star again?

It depends on the guy. I would… My line of work runs parallel to the type of thing they do, so when you date someone that isn’t in that line of work, they tend to get jealous. For example when I get messages – even from guys I don’t even know. Whereas porn stars understand that a little more…

Has it affected your love life?

Yes! A lot of people tend to have an already preconceived idea of what I’m like before they actually meet me. But I only put out there what I want people to see, so it’s like they’ve already made up their minds from that.

So it’s like a double-edged sword?

Yeah, it is. The plus side of it is, is that they keep me warm at night [laughs].

Have you ever had a really made dating disaster?

Hmmm, not really dating, but I’ve had hook-up disasters! Where the guy tends to start acting like a lesbian and get clingy real quick – you know like the joke that says lesbians turn up to the first date with a U-Haul? [laughs] Like you don’t even know my middle name?

C&C QUICK FIRE:

Are you single?

Yes

Who’s your celebrity crush?

Colton Haynes

What’s the biggest turn on in a guy?

A guy that doesn’t take himself too seriously, if he can laugh at himself and put a wig on, then it’s way more attractive.

When was your first kiss?

I can’t remember, you can tell it had a massive impact on my life [laughs]. Sometime in high school?

Would you ever have an open relationship?

Yes, depending on the guy. My last relationship was with a man that was married – to another man. But I don’t think gay men need to worry about the heteronormative settle-down model.

VIRAL: Cute Stud Struggles to Stuff his Bubble Butt into Skimpy Speedos [NSFW-ish]

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URGH, talk about first world problems. Having to fit your juicy ass into a pair of tiny swimwear is just about as first world as they come. Well, apart from that Keith Carlos couldn’t get his dick in his pants. Apparently his name is Greg Jameson. And he’s a porn star, so if you’re wanting to see more than just booty, you know how Google works. Although we’d rather watch this in slow rewind, so it looks like his ass is spilling out, rather than ’bout to be imprisoned.

Greg Jameson at @randyblue

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VIRAL: Would you like to be a Fly on the Wall at Magic Mike Live? OBVS!

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If Magic Mike, and Magic Mike XXL gave you fanny flutter like us, you’ll be pleased to know that Channing Tatum has opened up his own school of strippers. A live version of the show, taught by former-stripper Tatum is coming to Vegas! Oooh, pass mama her purse wit’ those dollar bills in, baby!

Although if you can’t make it to Vegas, that’s what Instagram is for. And we can almost smell the crumbled up dollar bills and gunky clunges of the hen parties. Unfortunately, Tatum won’t be getting his kit off at the shows – he said in a statement:

“Magic Mike has been a special and very personal project for me, and this show is a natural extension of that. So, while I won’t be on stage as Mike, Magic Mike Live Las Vegas is my vision and I’m looking forward to spending a lot of time in Las Vegas creating something that will give women what they really want.”

Um how do I get that seat? 😳🍭👅 #MenOfMML #magicmikelive #yourewelcome

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TONIGHT ALL MY DREAMS COME TRUE. 😍😘🙏🏽 #MenOfMML #vegasbaby #magicmikelive

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You guys stop teasing me. 😫👅😍 #MenOfMML #absfordays #sundayfunday

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T-minus 10 days until I can see those pearly whites in person. 😍🦄😁 #MenOfMML #mcm #thatsmiletho

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Brb going to Vegas 👋🏽👅😍 #MenOfMML #iwanttolickhim #magicmikelive

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2017 is off to a good start amirite? 🔥😘👅 #MenOfMML #absfordays #magicmikelive

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At any given point during the work day this is what's going on inside my head. 😍💭👅 #absfordays #countdowntovegas #MenOfMML

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tfw it's Saturday night and you got paid on Friday 💸😍🙏🏼 #MenOfMML #makeitrain #absfordays

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Well there goes my productivity for the day. 😍🔥😳 #MenOfMML #absfordays #MagicMikeLive

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YAS JESSE YAAAS. 💪🏼😍👀 #MenOfMML #absfordays #dancelikenooneswatching

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GOSSIP: Orlando Bloom Totally had No Idea he was Being Papped Naked

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Last year, Orlando Bloom broke the internet – and every newspaper cover – with a papped photo series of the actor paddleboarding, but that wasn’t an oar in his hand. Bloom proved he was anything but a wallflower as he paraded around with then-girlfriend Katy Perry wearing nothing but a sports cap. In a recent interview with ELLE magazine, Orlando got straight to the tip point…

“Are we going to talk about my penis?” Bloom asked Elle reporter Eve Barlow. To which Barlow choked on her biscotti. ER, yeah, we’re gonna do a reenactment, get your dick out then.

“Yes, it was extremely surprising,” he confessed. “I wouldn’t have put myself in that position if I’d thought it would happen.” But if you thought he was phased? He weren’t.

“I’ve been photographed a million times in a million ways. I have a good radar,” he said. “We’d been completely alone for five days. Nothing around us. There was no way anyone could get anything. So I had a moment of feeling free.” His member certainly looked free.

Barlow then asked about gender equality, “Had it been a woman exposed by the press there would have been outrage. Is it a case of double standards?”

“I didn’t take it that deep, darlin,” Bloom said. “What can I tell you? Note to self:’you’re never free. Ha!’” We’re glad he took it on the chin. As the rest of the world certainly didn’t have a problem looking! If you were on another planet at the time, you can see what all the fuss is about, here.

[H/t: Instinct, Attitude]

MAN CANDY: From See-Through Speedos to Sultry Stares: Why We Ship Luke Evans’ [NSFW-ish]

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Unless you’re senile, we don’t have to explain our obsession with Luke Evans to you. And what better excuse than to explore the actor’s ‘body’ of work… We’re waiting for Ryan Murphy to offer him a spot on AHS with all the other gays, so we can see him getting naked with Cheyenne Jackson and Matt Bomer. Your gay fans would tune in for that shit, 100.

Below are some of his sexy selfies, naked film roles, and those blue speedos snaps. And if you missed his alleged Cam4 chat, see them HERE.

See the alleged drunken Cam4 chats here.

You’re welcome.

MAN CANDY: ‘Big Bang Theory’s Johnny Galecki Full Frontal Broadway Scene [NSFW]

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You may be sick of seeing the Big Bang Theory on your TVs, but who’d have thunk that Queen Geek Lenard would have bared all in a homoerotic Broadway show before he hit the big time. Johnny Galecki pulled a Daniel Radcliffe when he dropped trou in Little Dog Laughed which ran on Broadway the year before Big Bang Theory aired. Galecki played Mitchell who had a “recurring case of homosexuality”, urgh – been there!

Dating: Are our Lowest Denominators of Intimacy Preventing us from Finding Love?

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I’d only been stateside for a New York minute when I found myself chatting to a group of friendly strangers in Boxers, a gay sports bar (sort of). There’s footie on the TV, but Christina Aguilera whaling out the speakers. Anyway, those damn Happy Hours got me chewing stranger’s ears off like a piece of bacon fat. And it wasn’t long before the cocktalk ensued. This week’s topic of discussion was how we can get stuck in the lowest denominator of intimacy that we engage in, and how this might be detrimental to our love life in the long-term.

When we lower the ceiling on the level of intimacies that we engage in, and even sexually experiment outside of our norm boundaries, are we in-turn setting our own trap? Once we’ve partook in casual sex in a bathhouse, group sex from Grindr, or entered the throbbing fetish scene, are we then hesitant to look for anything more than that?

As humans, we crave attention, intimacy and love, and so it wouldn’t be out of character for us to attempt to take the easy route to at least two of those things. Shortcuts to satisfaction and success (read: laziness) are also part of our natural inclination. (Or at least until we try it a few times, and then realise that it doesn’t work). It’s why we take steroids, have invented dating apps, and use live streaming. We’re impatient. We want results, and we want them fast. That includes sex. And now we live in a society which makes that possible. So in our rush to satisfy our sexual appetite, are we becoming lackadaisical in searching for real connections?

[RELATED: Gay Men and the Shiny Penny Syndrome]

They say that “practice makes perfect”, so if we only ever engage in anonymous and quick sex, while we may become an expert at it, we’re not putting in the practice it takes to love; effectively, we’re exercising our dicks, but not our hearts. And so when love comes along, in all its Tsunamic glory, how will we deal with it? I mean, can we ever really be fully equipped for love? Probably not. But when we’re stuck in a rut of finger-snap orgasms and drug-fueled fondling, how could we even expect to be?

“Because what works for you on the cheap, doesn’t prepare you for the real thing.” AJ* tells me. Highlighting that although they have a complicated and intertwined relationship, sex and love, are not the same thing. In today’s world, not even close.

So why engage in that lowest denominator to begin with? Well, if you’ve ever felt an orgasm, then surely there’s your answer. But aside from its ease, perhaps our lowest denominator of intimacy is just a way for us to mask our own self-imposed limits on commitment. Funnily enough, many of us have already subconsciously decided we don’t prioritize love, because, deep down, we know better than to look for it at an orgy or in the sauna. But, and here’s the crux, it’s also in our nature to experiment. In every sense of the word, but especially sexually.

‘How do you know, unless you try?’, right? And we should certainly not be restricted in our sexual experimentation with the threat that it may obscure finding love, but whether we’re accessing sex more easily, or delving further into the sleazier side of sex that many of us subconsciously crave, are we then doomed to settle for nothing less? It’s like having sex every day for a year, to then go back to wanking. It ain’t gonna cut the mustard!

[RELATED: Gay Dating and the Curse of Vauxhall]

Similarly, will men in open relationships be disheartened coming hope to one dick after scoffing seven at the gangbang earlier? Will men that have sat on traffic cones even notice when you use your dick? And once we’ve swapped vanilla for (50 Shades of) Gray, will we ever want to leave the Red Room?

Not only that, but do we then begin to change our own relationship with sex? ‘Sex Addicts Anonymous’ exists for a reason after all, and the more we have it, often the more we want it. Sexual experimentation is healthy, but is keeping it just to an experiment, the key? It’s always fun and sexy to live out your fantasies, but at some point we have to come back to the real world. At least, if our goal is a more traditional relationship where emotional and psychological connections are just as important as sexual.

After our conversation, AJ and I sucked face. Sponsored by vodka, obviously. Before he left in a taxi with another guy. Perhaps one night stands with easy strangers were just his lowest denominator.

Words by Anthony Gilét

VIRAL: Cheeky Compilation of Gym Guys Fooling Around is Making Us Sweat [NSFW-ish]

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Are you seriously lacking gym motivation? Yeah, us too. And summer basically ’bout here already. If only there were these guys were there messing around on the the machines. Although imagine, don’t even have to be in the locker room to see guys with their kit off; it’d totally be full of cruisers.

Random submissions 🤗

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FAGONY AUNT: “My Addiction to Escorts is Getting me into Debt!”

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I HAD sex with two escorts in three days – and now I’m worried I’m getting hooked on them. I’m a 25-year-old gay guy and have never had a boyfriend. I’m a computer programmer for a big software company. I work with lots of different people but I never seem to have anyone interested in me.

Everyone is geeky and they’re wrapped up in their work rather than wanting to go out. My friend told me about an escort agency he used. I signed up and went out with my first escort six months ago. 

I’m not fully out yet so it’s nice to spend time with someone sexy. He was 23 and at university and said he was using the money to help with his student loan. We went out for a meal then back to a flat he rented. He offered me a drink but I knew I was paying by the hour so I just said, “Can we have sex, please?” He nodded and we went to his bedroom.

He let me take off his clothes. I stood back and looked at him. I’d never been able to stare at a naked guy in the flesh before. When we had sex, it felt so good. I met him the following week and we had sex again.

I travelled to Holland on a training course for a month after that but I called the agency when I got back. My guy wasn’t available so I booked somebody else and had sex with him. I’ve been doing it every week since but it’s expensive. I’ve tried to find another hobby but I soon get bored and go back to escort guys.

I went with someone at the weekend and then the agency told me the first guy I’d been with was back working, so I booked him for the following night. I don’t really have the money to keep doing this. I’m using my credit cards and I think it’s getting out of control.

Hey Client,

Firstly, take a chill. Having sex with two whores in three days, is like saying you haven’t slept for a whole weekend and now have a drug addiction. Addictions don’t just happen over night, they take work and determination. Don’t dwell too much on the fact that you haven’t bagged a man yet – having the same dick every night is totally overrated! But one thing is fo’ sho’ – y’all not gonna find a husband in the back pages. That’s like looking for diamonds down a toilet drain.

OBVIOUSLY, you’re a computer programmer. I didn’t even need my crystal ball for that one, babe! While it’s hard enough to meet someone as a square, when you’re surrounded by people that have Big Bang Theory on record, it’s definitely harder. But there’s an entire world outside of work and the internet! What about a Star Trek convention or those historic reenactment things where you can dress up like an dwarf and pash-out with a down syndrome chick dressed like Xena? Although if you’re getting love-life recommendations from someone that directs you to hookers, then I’d say you should probably start by finding new friends.

But I must applaud your efficiency. Not even waiting round for some dutch courage; just ‘get your dick out, love, I’m on the clock, here!’ But just to be clear, he didn’t “let” you undress him. That’s what you paid for, honey. You don’t go to McDonald’s, pay for your Big Mac and then get allowed to eat it.

Having not seen a naked guy is obviously a pitfall of only having sex in dark rooms. I’m interested though, when you say you’ve tried other hobbies – have you tried gambling or cocaine? They’re pretty fun too!

It’s convenient to let easy sex obscure your path to love, but at least save your dollar when there’s men who’ll fuck you for free on Grindr. Granted, they’re probably not gonna be a buff broke college frat boy, but at least they’re not just touching you for the wad of cash on the nightstand. And naturally, your wallet will feel the pressure as much as your hoop. Prostitutes are for closeted actors and politicians; you need a poor person’s addiction, like porn or Cheetos.

If you believe to be too far down the brasses rabbit hole, then just think about the embarrassment your family will feel when they come to repossess your possessions ’cause Ricardo needs his tuition money. What’s important to remember is that no matter how these men make you feel, they’re not emotionally invested in you, and ergo will not be sucking your dick when you go bankrupt. And the only thing worse than being lonely – is being broke and lonely! Splash your cash on shit that’ll actually help: self-help books, motivational seminars, a life-coach, plastic surgery!

Good luck papi!

Xoxo

VIRAL: Pant Away as Ricky Martin Dances and Lip-Syncs in his Underwear [Video]

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Livin’ La-Vida-LUKATAR! Ricky Martin has only gotten sexier with age (and ditching those leather trousers, obvs!), and now the Latin singer is appearing on Lip Sync Battle, performing in his undies. Just the way we like it. If your not familiar with Lip Sync Battles concept, they pit two celebs against each other to see which one can go more OTT and make the most headlines.

And if there’s one way to do it, Ricky Martin’s bulge knows how. Thankfully it’s an upbeat number so there’s a lot of jumping, and we’re applauding the fact that he opted for white too. Choices. Imagine waking up to him making breakfast in an oversized shirt and boxer briefs. OOFT, mama needs a moment. Martin lip-syncs to 80s hit ‘Risky Business’.

Check out the preview below – it’ll be enough for you to check out the full ep when it airs.


MAN CANDY: Brazilian Footballer-turned-Model Alexsandro Duarte Flaunts Bulge in Briefs

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As underwear brand D. Hedral continue their search for fit blokes to stuff into their teensy pants, we’re graced with former footie player, Alexsandro Duarte. And while he may only be 5’9″ – it seems he’s got all the equipment needed to model a pair of briefs.

After an injury cut his career as a footballer short, Duarte turned to modelling and fitness training. And if his fine form isn’t enough to entice you, when asked about his idols, Duarte claims: “my father died when I was 9 years old he always will be my idol!” *Heart melts*

See more of Alexsandro here. And read his full interview here.

 

Dating: Getting to the Bottom of our Sexual Preferences

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I rolled my eyes as each member in the group divulged their position in bed. In this really what we’d been resorted to in a bar on a Wednesday night? Watching the bottom’s salivate as the tops identified themselves, and the tops eye-up their counterparts like a piece of meat, while the versatile queens greedily checked out everyone like bisexuals.

Apparently sexual compatibility was just as important – if not more so – than intellectual and conversational boners. But as the discussion of sexual preference delved *deeper*, it was certainly stirring something with me – intellectually.

“Everybody in this city is a bottom,” complained Martin, a New Yorker. I’d heard the same thing about LA, too. But then I moved there and found it to be Bible. But in NY, it seemed to me like more of a sexual cocktail, where people regularly flip-fucked, and sexual preference was less of an issue.

“No, seriously!” He insisted.

And despite seeing a handful people on social media whinge that London had no tops, I fought the corner of my hometown. “We don’t have that problem in London.” And I genuinely believe that we don’t. There’s always and equal amount of each banging on my door. (Although granted, tops come round the back).

So was this a Western sweeping dilemma that would gradually hit the UK like an overseas wind? Did certain guys just simply attract different types of men? Or was it something more culturally appropriate than that? Were there more bottoms in America than the UK? And if so, why…

“It’s not that the thought of topping a guy doesn’t turn me on, but I just get so much more pleasure as the bottom”, chimed in another guy. And that’s when I wondered, is our sexual preference (aside from being related to our mind-set) directly linked to our anatomy?

We’ve all heard the theory that the bigger the dick, the more likely the guy being a top. And not because it’d be a waste of a cock either, but because they tend to get more pleasure than guys who aren’t packing as much. But was there more it? What if, men who has been circumsized (as such with a majority of the US) are more likely to be bottoms because they’re dicks are less sensitive? I mean, it’s hardly far-fetched. And when I suggested it to the group, it had a number of them scratching their heads.

There’s obviously never going to a straight answer for the question, ‘why are some men top and some men bottom’, and there would always be exceptions to the rule even so, as things just simply aren’t that rigid – but sensitivity is related to levels of pleasure, and our sexual desires clearly derive from that too.

Clearly our mentality plays a part (as some people just don’t find certain roles sexually stimulating), and perhaps the perviously mentioned size-debate does contribute too (hitting that second sphincter comes in handy) – but are whether we’re cirumsized or not another factor that contributes to the mystery of gay sexual roles?

It would certainly be one basic explanation for why Americans feel more top-deprived. I’d love to insert a quote here from a scientist or college professor that says it’s possible, but I only know weed dealers. So for now, it’s still a debate. Sound off below!

By Anthony Gilét

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